Being in a relationship maybe a thing that is generally accepted, yet it’s a choice. You decide if you want it or not. I have seen people talking about relationship as if it is a do or die thing. Get it now relationship is not your oxygen, with or without it you will survive. The people telling you to be in a relationship has not even asked you if you have discovered purpose or if you have something you are doing or planning, to make impact in life, instead they misplaced priorities. There are important things that should be before a relationship, if these things are not there, by default, the relationship won’t be a success. Don’t force yourself into any relationship or allow anybody to intimidate you into being in one. If you think you are not ready for it, maybe financially, emotionally, spiritually or psychologically, my dear don’t rush, take your time to make sure you are fit and ready for it. It’s better to be happily single than to be in double wahala. If there’s anybody that want to bring down your self esteem because you are not in a relationship please do well to shun them. Being single is not a disease, you are complete and whole.
You dictate and decide when you are ready for a relationship and nobody else. Be complete and be ready for it. Don’t be intimidated into it. You are the CEO of your life, hire and fire at your choice!
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