There are times in a relationship where a partner or both of them are wondering that is this relationship true? Do we really love ourselves? Most times is the lady that is asking question like oh guy do you really love me? Is not as if she doesn’t believe you love her? But there’s a part of her feeling like I’m not so sure this guy loves me. She want to be safe and sure, so also is the guy when he’s having the same feeling, he want to be convinced he is not in relationship with just himself. Every person in a true relationship wants to be ascertained of being in a safe hand. Things that prove that love is true are:
1. Selflessness: the partners in a true relationship ain’t selfish, they prefer each other. You desire the good of your partner and he/she does the Same in return. No selfish interest, before thinking of what your partner can offer, you would have known what you have to offer for the benefit of the relationship . 2. Good communication: partners in a true relationship are always ready to communicate with each other. When your partner is always busy to talk to you, it often shows that he or she isn’t into you. So don’t force such relationship to continue. If your partner truly loves you no matter how busy he or she is, he or she will create your time because they realise you are part of their life. So you are important too as anything that always keep them busy. 3. Forgiveness is easy: in any relationship, misunderstanding is inevitable, so when there’s true love, forgiveness is easy no matter the offence. Partners may even make up their minds at initial of the relationship to always forgive each other. Sorry is always easy to say and the other person is ready to forgive. 4.understanding of differences: this implies that you ain’t forcing your partner to be who they are not. You understand that you both are different people with different attributes. So don’t try to change them to be you. Instead if there’s anything in them you don’t like, talk things out and let them know the reason why if such thing continue and not dealt with it, will affect the relationship or it’s dangerous. Wisdom is the ability to understand differences and a wise person build the relationship and not mar it. Thanks for reading!
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